Be content

I'm always contented with what I've got. I was red with anger, filled to the brim with loads of unhappiness when I read a comment in my facebook. It's about guys who are displease about their sufferings in NS while we girls, don't.

Everything is fair in the world. We should be contented and not to make unnecessary complains. It's true that we, girls don't serve NS. Some even claim that we should serve nursing as National Service. I don't agree with this.

Girls have monthly periods. It's not any easy moment either. We experience moodswings and discomfort for days. Some might even experience abdomen pain and insomnia due to the inconsistency of bloating.

We have to bear children in the future. It's a kind of pain and struggles that we have to go through. If we are going through caeserean, there will be a permanent scar that gonna look ugly on our body. Natural birth can be very painful even if the wounds heal faster. Our tummy will be covered with unwanted stretch marks. By then, you gonna start to think if your the other half is going to mind about it.

It's a great amount of stress we are going through.

And worst, a basket (a male) said that giving birth is optional. Well, he better not have any kids in future. Because he's not gonna treasure if it turns out to be daughter. Such a person has no rights to have one especially when he don't even understand girls. I'm so disgusted by his comments without indepth thoughts and consideration. Apparently, this person talks without using his brain and fail to put themselves in other shoes.

I just want to conclude that, the god is fair whether you are a buddhism, taoism or christian, so be it. Life is like a cycle, we have to go through different life in the body of a man and a woman. You should never compare and just be contented with what you have.